life is not all abt winning?

yeah, i believe in this statement. :)
is winning a game, winning a prize, winning others that important?
HELLO, i always thought its the process that counts. tell me that i'm wrong? maybe, i'm still thinking in a naive manner. if thats the case, dont stop me from thinking in this manner. at least, i still do have some kid thinking yeah? *LAUGH*

tell me, if one could win in friendship? is friendship so superficial?
the hpys i have, the ones that stayed by me through everything are definitely not superficial. how many friends will actually tolerate my bad temper and.. let me go on&on abt how piss off i am on the phone? they could have just hung up on me. how many friends will actually allow me to type&type on msn abt my day and.. how sad i am? they could have just block me on msn...

the strong friendship i have with these people is not through winning but through understanding&tolerating. if they couldnt tolerate me, i'm nowhere.

tell me, if one could win in a family?
if life is all abt winning, then i must be really busy. (yvonne too) having to put up with the endless comparisons since young is not a small thing. if.. yvonne&me dont understand one another, i think... we will both be hugging our textbooks right now&have our heart set on winning one another. BUT NO. we're not doing that. its pathetic if we have to constantly come out with new ways to win one another.

tell me, if one could win in love? is love just a game?
if thats the case, i rather not participate at all.

i simply dont understand why some ppl is set out to winning others. is it that important to win? &worst, to win means they have to insult others, to win means they have to demoralise others. 做人也要有自知自明嘛！(zuo ren ye yao you zi zhi zi ming ma) i just went through this ytd&i know how it feeels. HOW SAD WOULD IT BE IF LIFE'S ALL ABT WINNING?!

ohyeah.. lastly..
stop shouting his name infront of me can?! its... very irritating.
since last time till now, this never stops. you ppl, GROW UP LEH.